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I don't know

I don't know. Sometimes I dream... about being a good fatherand a good husband. And...

Before Sunrise • 1995

I don't know. Sometimes I dream... about being a good fatherand a good husband. And sometimes it feels really close. But then other times... it seems silly... like it would... ruin my whole life. And it's not justa fear of commitment... or that I'm incapableof caring or loving because... I can. It's just that, if I'mtotally honest with myself... I think I'd rather die knowing... that I wasreally good at something. That I had excelledin some way... than that I'd just been in... a nice, caring relationship

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I don't know

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Sometimes I dream

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about being a good father and a good husband

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And sometimes it feels really close

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But then other times

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it seems silly

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like it would

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ruin my whole life

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And it's not just a fear of commitment

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or that I'm incapable of caring or loving because

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I can

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It's just that if I'm totally honest with myself

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I think I'd rather die knowing

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that I was really good at something

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That I had excelled in some way

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than that I'd just been in

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a nice caring relationship

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لا أدري

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أحيانا أحلم

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بكوني أبا وزوجا صالحا

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وأحيانا أشعر أن ذلك وشيك

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ولكن في أحيان أخرى

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يبدو ذلك سخيفا

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وكأنه سيفسد حياتي بأكملها

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وهذا ليس مجرد خوف من الارتباط

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أو من عدم مقدرتي على الاهتمام والحب لأنني قادر على ذلك

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الأمر فقط أنني إن كنت صادقا مع نفسي

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فأظن أنني أفضل أن أموت وأنا أعرف أنني أجدت شيئا ما

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وأنني تميزت بطريقة ما

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بدلا من أنني كنت فقط أقيم علاقة لطيفة ومبنية على الاهتمام

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Je sais pas

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Parfois je rêve

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d'être un bon père et un bon mari

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Et je m'en sens tout près

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Mais parfois

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ça me semble idiot

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comme si ça allait

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gâcher toute ma vie

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C'est pas que j'aie peur de m'engager

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ou que je ne puisse pas aimer

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parce que je peux

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Pour être honnête avec moi même

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je préfère mourir

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certain d'avoir réussi quelque chose

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Je veux exceller en quelque chose

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plutôt que d'avoir eu

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de bons rapports affectifs

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Ich weiß nicht

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Manchmal träume ich davon

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ein guter Vater und ein guter Ehemann zu sein

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Und manchmal scheint das wirklich möglich

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Aber zu anderen Zeiten

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fühlt es sich komisch an

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als ob es mein ganzes Leben ruinieren würde

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Es ist auch nicht nur die Angst vor Bindung

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oder davor dass ich nicht lieben kann denn das könnte ich wohl

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Es ist nur wenn ich ganz ehrlich mit mir bin

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dann würde ich lieber mit dem Wissen sterben etwas richtig gut zu können

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Dass ich in einer Disziplin brilliert habe

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anstatt nur in einer netten liebevollen Beziehung gelebt zu haben

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No lo sé

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A veces sueño

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con ser un buen padre y un buen marido

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Y a veces me siento capaz de serlo

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Pero otras veces

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me parece una tontería

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algo que arruinaría mi vida

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Y no es sólo por miedo al compromiso

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o que sea incapaz de cuidar o de amar a alguien porque puedo hacerlo

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Lo que pasa es que si soy honesto conmigo mismo

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preferiría morir sabiendo que he sido realmente bueno en alguna otra cosa

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Que he sido extraordinario de alguna manera

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y no sólo que he tenido una relación bonita y cariñosa

Available in 5 languages

Duration

48 seconds

Views

1,521

Timestamp in Movie

01:05:30

Uploaded

Mar 11, 2026

Genres

Production

Castle Rock Entertainment,Detour Filmproduction,Filmhaus Films

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Movie Summary

A young man and woman meet on a train in Europe, and wind up spending one evening together in Vienna. Unfortunately, both know that this will probably be their only night together.

Actors

Jesse