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What did it feel like when you fell in loveOh dearI don't think I found itEven with GrandpaMaybe a little in the beginningBless us O Lord for these thy gifts which we are about to receiveHe didn't

I think the only way you can find out is to have the feeling. You're a good person. You...

Blue Valentine • 2010

Cindy:
What did it feel like when you fell in love?Gramma:Oh... oh dear, I don't think I found it.Cindy:Even with grandpa?Gramma:Maybe a little, in the beginning. He didn't really have any regard for me as a person. You gotta be careful with that. You gotta be careful with the person you fall in love is worth it... to you.Cindy:I never want to be like my parents. I know they must've loved each other at one time, right? To just get it all out of the way before they had me. How do you trust your feelings when they can just disappear like that?Gramma:I think the only way you can find out is to have the feeling. You're a good person. You have the right to say, "I do trust. I do trust myself."

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What did it feel like when you fell in love

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Oh dear

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I don't think I found it

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Even with Grandpa

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Maybe a little in the beginning

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Bless us O Lord for these thy gifts which we are about to receive

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He didn't really have any regard for me as a person

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You've gotta be careful of that

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You've gotta be careful that the person that you fall in love

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is worth it to you

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I don't ever want to be like my parents

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I know that they must have loved each other at one time right

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Did they just get it all out of the way before they had me

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We're supposed to eat this garbage

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I'm sorry

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Do you want me to make you some eggs No

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I want you to enjoy your goddamned dinner

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How do you trust your feelings when they can just disappear like that

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I think the only way you can find out is to have the feeling

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You're a good person honey

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I think you have the right to say Yes I do trust

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I trust myself

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كيف كان شعورك عندما وقعت في الحب

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اه يا عزيزتي

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لا اعتقد اني وجدت الحب حتي مع جدي

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ربما قليلا في البداية

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لم يكن لي أي اعتبار لي كشخص عليك الحذر من هذا

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عليك ان تكوني حذرةبان الشخص الذي تقعين في حبه

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يستحق الحب منك

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لا أريد ابدا ان اكون كوالدي

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اعلم انهم قد كانوا في الحب يوما ما أليس كذلك

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هل نفذ حبهم كله قبل ان آتيظ

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هل من المفروض ان نأكل هذه القمامة

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انا اسفة هل تريدني ان اعد لك بعض البيض

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كلا اريدك ان تستمتعي بعشائك اللعين

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كيف تثقين بمشاعرك

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عندما تختفي هكذا

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اعتقد ان الطريقة الوحيدة لتعرفي هي ان تجربي الشعور

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انت فتاة طيبة سندي

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اعتقد ان لديك الحق بقول نعم انا اثق

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انا اثق بنفسي

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Qu'est ce que t'as éprouvé lorsque t'as trouvé l'amour

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Grand Dieu

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Je ne crois pas l'avoir trouvé

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Même avec grand père

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Peut être un peu au tout début

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Seigneur béni sois tu pour le bon repas

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Mais il n'avait pratiquement aucune considération pour moi

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en tant que personne Tu dois faire attention à ça

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Tu dois avoir la conviction

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que la personne dont tu t'éprends dans la vie

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euh en vaut la peine

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Pour toi

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Je veux pas ressembler à mes parents

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J'imagine qu'ils ont dû s'aimer à un moment ou à un autre Non

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Est ce qu'ils avaient épuisé toutes leurs réserves d'amour

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avant de m'avoir

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On est censés bouffer cette merde

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Hein

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Je suis désolée Tu veux que je te fasse des oeufs

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Non

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Je veux que tu bouffes ta saloperie de repas

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Comment peut on se fier à ses sentiments

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quand ils peuvent disparaître

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aussi vite qu'ils sont nés

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Je pense que la seule façon de le savoir c'est de

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d'éprouver ces sentiments

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Tu es quelqu'un de bien trésor

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Je crois que tu as le droit de dire Oui j'ai confiance

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J'ai confiance en moi

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Wie war das bei dir als du dich verliebt hast

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Ach du liebe Zeit

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Ich hab die Liebe wohl nie gefunden

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Auch nicht bei Opa

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Vielleicht ein bisschen am Anfang

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Wir danken Dir o Herr für die Speisen

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Aber als Mensch hat er mich nie geschätzt

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Da musst du sehr vorsichtig sein

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Du musst aufpassen dass der Mensch in den du dich verliebst

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es auch wert ist

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Ich will nie so werden wie meine Eltern

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Ich weiß dass sie sich mal geliebt haben müssen

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Ging das schon in die Brüche bevor sie mich bekamen

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Diesen Müll sollen wir essen

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Tut mir leid

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Soll ich dir Eier machen Nein

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Du sollst dein verdammtes Essen genießen

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Wie kann man seinen Gefühlen trauen wenn sie einfach so verschwinden können

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Ich glaube das kannst du nur herausbekommen

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wenn du Gefühle hast

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Du bist ein guter Mensch Süße

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Du hast das Recht zu sagen Ja ich vertraue meinen Gefühlen

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Ich vertraue mir

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Bagaimana rasanya saat kau jatuh cinta

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Ooh

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Oh sayang

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Kurasa aku menemukannya

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Bahkan dengan kakek

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Mungkin sedikit di permulaannya

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Berkatilah kami Tuhan atas rezeki yang akan kami terima

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Dia bahkan tidak pernah memperhatikanku sebagai manusia

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Kau harus berhati hati soal itu

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Kau harus berhati hati bahwa orang yang kau cintai

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Harus sangat berarti bagimu

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Aku tak pernah mau selamanya menjadi seperti orang tuaku

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Aku tahu bahwa mereka pasti saling mencintai pada waktu itu 'kan

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Apakah mereka sudah melakukan itu semua sebelum mereka mendapat aku

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Apa kita harus memakan sampah ini

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Huh

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Maafkan aku

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Kau mau aku membuat telur Tidak

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Aku ingin kau menikmati makan malam sialanmu

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Bagaimana kau bisa mempercayakan perasaanmu ketika mereka menghilang seperti itu

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Kurasa satu satunya jalan kau bisa tahu adalah dengan harus mendapat perasaan itu

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Kau orang yang baik sayang

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Kurasa kau harus berkata Ya aku percaya

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Aku percaya diriku

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Что чувствуешь когда влюбляешься

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О дорогая

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Я не думаю что нашла любовь Даже с дедушкой

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Может быть немного в самом начале

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Он не уважал меня как личность Тебе следует остерегаться этого

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Тебе нужно остерегаться того что человек которого ты любишь

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достоин тебя

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Я ни за что не хочу быть как мои родители

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Я знаю что они должны были любить друг друга в прошлом верно

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Разве они могли избавиться от всего этого до того как родить меня

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Ты предлагаешь нам есть эти помои А

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Прости Хочешь я приготовлю тебе яйца Нет

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Я хочу чтобы ты наслаждалась своим проклятым ужином

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Как ты можешь доверять своим чувствам

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когда они так исчезают как это

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Я думаю единственный способ понять это чувствовать

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Ты хороший человек Синди

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Я думаю у тебя есть право сказать да я доверяю

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я доверяю себе

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Qué sentiste cuando te enamoraste

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Querida

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No creo que lo haya encontrado

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Incluso con el abuelo

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Quizá un poco al principio

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Realmente él no tuvo consideración conmigo como persona

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Tienes que ser cuidadosa con eso

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Tienes que ser muy cuidadosa de que la persona de la que te enamores

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valga la pena para ti

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No quisiera llegar a ser como mis padres

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Sé que ellos debieron amarse en algún momento cierto

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Simplemente sacaron todo del camino antes de tenerme

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Se supone que comeremos esta basura

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Lo siento

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Quieres que te prepare unos huevos No

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Quiero que disfrutes tu maldita cena

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Cómo confías en tus sentimientos cuando desaparecen así como así

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Creo que solo lo puedes averiguar cuando tienes el presentimiento

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Eres una buena persona cariño

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Creo que tienes el derecho a decir Sí confío

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Confío en mí misma

Available in 7 languages

Duration

95 seconds

Views

859

Timestamp in Movie

00:29:38

Uploaded

Mar 14, 2026

Genres

Production

Cottage Industries,Incentive Filmed Entertainment,Silverwood Films,Hunting Lane Films,Chrysler Corporation,Shade Pictures,Motel Movies

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Movie Summary

Dean and Cindy live a quiet life in a modest neighborhood. They appear to have the world at their feet at the outset of the relationship. However, his lack of ambition and her retreat into self-absorption cause potentially irreversible cracks in their marriage.

Actors

Cindy

Michelle Williams

Gramma