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I grew up next to a kid with autism

I grew up next to a kid with autism. -I have a frame of reference.-Whoa, autistic? You...

Dear John • 2010

I grew up next to a kid with autism. -I have a frame of reference.-Whoa, autistic? You saying my dad's like Alan?You're saying my dad's retarded? No, Alan's not retarded, John.He's autistic. There are milder forms of itand these things go undiagnosed. Is this what you've been doing?You've just been studying my dad? No. How could you even say that? I've lived with my dad my entire life.Put up with him my entire life. You think I don't knowthat he's not normal? Yeah? You think I need you to tell mehe's not normal? Yeah

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I grew up next to a kid with autism

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I have a frame of reference Whoa autistic

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You saying my dad's like Alan You're saying my dad's retarded

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No Alan's not retarded John He's autistic

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There are milder forms of it and these things go undiagnosed

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Is this what you've been doing You've just been studying my dad

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No How could you even say that

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I've lived with my dad my entire life Put up with him my entire life

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You think I don't know that he's not normal

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Yeah

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You think I need you to tell me he's not normal

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Yeah

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حسنا لقد نشأت بالقرب من طفل ذو إحتياجات خاصة

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مهلا أتقصدين أن والدى مثل آلن

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أتقصدين أن والدى م عاق ذهنيا ليس م عاق ذهنيا بل ذو إحتياجات خاصة

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هناك أنواع لذلك

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هل هذا ما كنت تفعلينه تقومين بدراسة والدى

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كلا كيف أمكنك قول ذلك

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لقد قضيت حياتى مع والدى حياتى بالكامل

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أتظنين بأنى لا أعلم إن كان طبيعيا أم لا

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هل أنتظر منك أن تقولى لى بأنه غير طبيعى

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حسنا

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J'ai grandi auprès d'un gosse autiste J'ai un certain cadre de référence

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Autiste Tu dis que mon père est comme Alan

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Qu'il est retardé ou quoi Non

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Alan n'est pas retardé mais autiste

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Il y a plusieurs formes Les moins graves ne sont pas diagnostiquées

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C'est ça que tu faisais Tu étudiais mon père

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Non Comment peux tu dire ça

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J'ai vécu toute ma vie avec mon père Je l'ai supporté toute ma vie

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Tu crois que je sais pas qu'il n'est pas normal

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Tu crois que j'ai besoin que tu me le dises

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Oui

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Das Kind meiner Nachbarn ist autistisch Ich kenne das

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Autistisch Mein Dad soll wie Alan sein Zurückgeblieben

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Alan ist nicht zurückgeblieben John Er ist Autist

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Leichte Fälle werden oft nicht erkannt

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Du hast die ganze Zeit meinen Dad beobachtet

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Nein wie kannst du das sagen

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Ich habe meinen Dad mein ganzes Leben lang ertragen

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Glaubst du ich weiß nicht dass er nicht normal ist

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Denkst du du erzählst mir was Neues

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Aku tumbuh bersama anak autis

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Aku punya referensinya Austis

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Maksudmu Ayahku sama seperti Alan Maksudmu Ayahku terbelakang

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Tidak Alan tidak terbelakang John Dia autis

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Ada formulir isian dan ini bisa dijadikan diagnosa

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Apa ini yang kau lakukan Kau mempelajari Ayahku

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Tidak Bagaimana kau bisa berkata begitu

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Aku tinggal dengan Ayahku seumur hidupku Selalu bersamanya

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Kau pikir aku tak tahu kalau dia tidak normal

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Ya

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Kau pikir aku butuh kamu untuk katakan kalau dia tak normal

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Ya

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Я росла рядом с ребенком у которого аутизм

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Поэтому у меня есть возможность сравнить

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Стой Аутизм То есть мой отец как Алан

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То есть мой отец умственно отсталый

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Нет Алан не умственно отсталый он аутист

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Существуют легкие формы этой болезни часто их даже не распознают

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Так вот почему ты ко мне ходила Для того чтобы изучать моего отца

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Нет Как ты можешь говорить это

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Я всю жизнь живу со своим отцом

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Приспосабливаюсь к нему всю жизнь

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Думаешь я не вижу что он не такой как все

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Думаешь мне нужно чтобы ты в это ткнула

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Да

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Yo crecí cerca de un niño autista

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Escuche de esto Espera dices autista

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Estás diciendo que mi padre es como Alan

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Crees que él es retardado

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Alan no es retardado es autista

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Existen formas diferentes Y esas cosas

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Es eso lo que estabas haciendo Estudiando a mi padre

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Como puedes decir eso Viví con él toda mi vida

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Estuve con él todo este tiempo Crees que no sé que es normal

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Crees que te necesitaba para saber que no lo es

Available in 7 languages

Duration

39 seconds

Views

31

Timestamp in Movie

00:28:07

Uploaded

Mar 08, 2026

Genres

drama, mystery, romance

Production

Screen Gems,Relativity Media,Temple Hill Entertainment

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Movie Summary

A romantic drama about a soldier who falls for a conservative college student while he's home on leave.