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Maybe that's what all
these divorces were about. We watch ourselves and
our spouses change, and the work is to
constantly recall the reasons why you did
this in the first place. You mistake the person closest
to you for your misery. You think, "Maybe if I excised
this thing, I'd be me again." But you're not you anymore. You haven't been
you in a long time. And it's not his fault. It was always going to happen
these divorces were about. We watch ourselves and
our spouses change, and the work is to
constantly recall the reasons why you did
this in the first place. You mistake the person closest
to you for your misery. You think, "Maybe if I excised
this thing, I'd be me again." But you're not you anymore. You haven't been
you in a long time. And it's not his fault. It was always going to happen
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Maybe that's what all
these divorces were about.
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We watch ourselves and
our spouses change,
00:00:08.343 --> 00:00:11.003
and the work is to
constantly recall
00:00:11.998 --> 00:00:13.051
the reasons why you did
this in the first place.
00:00:14.222 --> 00:00:17.272
You mistake the person closest
to you for your misery.
00:00:18.559 --> 00:00:22.939
You think, "Maybe if I excised
this thing, I'd be me again."
00:00:25.566 --> 00:00:27.436
But you're not you anymore.
00:00:30.238 --> 00:00:32.278
You haven't been
you in a long time.
00:00:33.157 --> 00:00:34.157
And it's not his fault.
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It was always going to happen.
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Movie Summary
Toby Fleishman knew what to expect when he and his wife of almost 15 years separated: weekends and every other holiday with the kids, some residual bitterness, and the occasional moment of tension in their co-parenting negotiations.