Okay, let's say we just make this happen. We each commit to flying back and forth as much...

Amanda: Okay, let's say we just make this happen. We each commit to flying back and forth as much as we can. Graham: Yes! It's doable, definitely. Amanda: And then let's say in 6 months we hit a wall. Like I can't constantly be away from work or the girls can't deal with you leaving so often. Then we start to feel the tension, we know this isn't going to work, so we start fighting because we don't know what else to do. And after a long, tearful- at your end... Graham: I like it [sarcastically] Graham: . Amanda: -phone call we say goodbye. And that'll be it, for real. It's not like we're ever going to bump into each other. And then what's left? Two miserable people feeling totally mashed up it hurts. Or... Graham: Thank you. Amanda: Or maybe we should just realize that what we've had these past few weeks has been perfect. And maybe it won't get any better than this. And maybe we're trying to figure this thing out because it makes us feel so good to feel this way, and maybe the fact that I'm leaving in 8 hours makes this far more exciting than it might actually be. Graham: You're seriously the most depressing girl I have ever met.

Okay. Let's say we just make this happen. We commit to flying back and forth as much as we can. Yes! It's doable, definitely. And then let's say in six months we hit a wall. Like, I can't constantly be away from work... ...or the girls can't deal with you leaving so often. And we start to feel the tension. We know this isn't gonna work... ...so we start fighting because we don't know what else to do. And then, after a long, tearful... At your end... phone call... ...we just... We say goodbye. - Thank you. That'll be it, for real. It's not like we'll ever bump into each other. And then what's left? Two miserable people... ...feeling totally mashed up and hurt. Or... Thank you. Or maybe we should just... ...realize that what we've had these past few weeks has been perfect. And maybe it won't get any better than this. Maybe we're trying to figure this thing out... ...because it makes us feel good to feel this. Maybe the fact that I'm leaving in 8 hours... ...makes this far more exciting than it might actually be. Maybe. You are, seriously, the most depressing girl I've ever met. I know. I have another scenario for you. - Good. - I'm in love with you. I apologize for the blunt delivery. But as problematical as this... ...fact may be, I am in love. With you. I'm not feeling this because you're leaving. And not because it feels good to feel this way. Which, by the way, it does... Or did, before you went off like that. I can't figure out the mathematics of this. I just know I love you. Can't believe how many times I'm saying it. And I never thought I'd feel this way again, so that's pretty phenomenal. And I realize I come with a package deal: Three for the price of one. And my... ...package, perhaps in the light of day, isn't all that wonderful... ...but I finally know what I want, and that, in itself, is a miracle. And what I want... ...is you. I wasn't expecting "I love you." Can you not look at me like that? I'm trying to find the right thing to say. I think if the obvious response... ...doesn't immediately come to you, we can... ...just... We should just... ...talk about something else. Like, possibly, what a complete ass I am.