If you're told from day one, don't let nobody disrespect you, and this is the way you...

If you're told from day one, don't let nobody disrespect you, and this is the way you handle it as a man, respect is linked to violence. Boys are trained to externalize our pain. When something bad has happened to us, we need to do something bad to somebody else, avenge the humiliation that we've suffered, the shame that we've experienced. To me that's such a basic and an incredibly important part of what is going on in the violence pandemic in our society