Well what about us, what is it like for us? I get on the defensive and want to make sure...

Cassie Jaye: Whenever I hear the MRAs point of view about how difficult it is for them, I immediately go to: well what about us, what is it like for us? I get on the defensive and want to make sure that women's struggles are also heard. I don't know if that's necessary because the MRAs are saying that the feminist perspective is the mainstream perspective, but even when I hear their issues, I still want to speak up for the women, because I feel like... I don't know why I feel like talking about one gender's issues now neglects the other, and I guess that's what MRAs have been dealing with is always hearing about women's issues and feeling like their issues are neglected, but whenever I hear them talk about men's issues I want to stand up for women and say this is what we're dealing with, an equal opposite.