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Would you like to have dinner Just friendsYou don't believe men and women can be friendsWhen did I say that On the ride to New YorkNo no no no I never said thatYes that's right They can't be

When Harry Met Sally

Harry, goodbye

When Harry Met Sally • 1989

Harry Burns:
Would you like to have dinner? Just friends.Sally Albright:I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.Harry Burns:When did I say that?Sally Albright:On the ride to New York.Harry Burns:No, no, no, I never said that. Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can. This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted. That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends. So, where does that leave us?Sally Albright:Harry, goodbye

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Would you like to have dinner Just friends

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You don't believe men and women can be friends

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When did I say that On the ride to New York

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No no no no I never said that

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Yes that's right They can't be friends

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Unless both are involved with someone Then they can I amend the earlier rule

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If two people are in relationships

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the pressure of possible involvement is lifted

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That doesn't work either The person you're with can't see

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why you need to be friends with the person

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like it means something is missing from the relationship

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Then when you say No nothing is missing the person you're with

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accuses you of being attracted to the person you're just friends with

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which you probably are I mean let's face it

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So we're back to the rule before the amendment

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Men and women can't be friends Where's it leave us

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Harry What

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Goodbye

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هل تودين تناول العشاء مجرد صديقين

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لست تؤمن بوجود صداقة بين الرجال والنساء

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متى قلت ذلك في رحلتنا إلى نيويورك

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كلا لم أقل ذلك

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بلى هذا صحيح لا يمكن أن يكونوا أصدقاء

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إلا لو كانوا مرتبطين بشخص آخر هذا تعديل للقاعدة السابقة

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لو الشخصين مرتبطين فضغط العلاقة الممكنة سينخفض

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لا يمكن أيضا لو الشخص الذي ترتبطين به لا ترينه

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فما حاجتك للصديق الذي هو مجرد صديق

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كأن شيئا مفقودا من العلاقة وتحاولين العثور عليه

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وحين تقولين عكس ذلك فالشخص الذي ترتبطين به

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يتهمك بالتجاذب نحو الشخص الذي هو مجرد صديق

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وقد يكون ذلك صحيحا لا مفر لنواجه الأمر

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لذا سنعود إلى القاعدة قبل التعديل وهي

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لا صداقة بين الرجال والنساء إلى أين يقودنا ذلك

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هاري ماذا

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وداعا

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Tu veux qu'on dîne ensemble En amis

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Tu ne peux pas être ami avec une femme

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J'ai dit ça En allant à New York

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Non j'ai jamais dit ça

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Si Un homme et une femme ne peuvent pas être amis

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Sauf s'ils sont tous les deux avec quelqu'un Premier amendement

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Dans ce cas ils ne sont pas menacés par une éventuelle liaison

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Ça ne marche pas non plus Celui avec qui on est

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ne voit pas pourquoi on veut un ami

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et croit qu'il manque quelque chose à vos relations

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Et quand on dit Non il ne manque rien

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il croit qu'on est attiré par l'autre l'ami

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et il a raison Soyons honnêtes

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J'annule l'amendement

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L'homme et la femme ne seront jamais amis

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Harry Quoi

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Au revoir

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Bleibst du über Nacht Ja

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Willst du Essen gehen Nur als Freunde

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Ich denke das können Männer und Frauen nicht sein

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Hab ich das gesagt Auf dem Weg nach New York

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Nein nein nein Das hab ich nie gesagt

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Stimmt

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Sie können keine Freunde sein

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Nur wenn beide in festen Beziehungen sind

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Ergänzung zur früheren Regel

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Wenn beide in einer Beziehung sind

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ist der Druck weg

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Es klappt trotzdem nicht

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Dein Partner sieht nicht ein

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warum du die Freundschaft brauchst

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so als ob dir in der Beziehung was fehlen würde

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Wenn du sagst

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Nein nichts fehlt

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beschuldigt dich dein Partner dass du den so genannten Freund

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attraktiv findest was wahrscheinlich stimmt

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Seien wir ehrlich

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Also sind wir wieder bei der alten Regel

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Männer und Frauen können keine Freunde sein Also

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Harry Was

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Auf Wiedersehen

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apa kau mau makan malam bersama Hanya sebagai teman

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Aku kira kau tidak percaya pria dan wanita tidak bisa menjadi teman

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Kapan aku bilang seperti itu saat berkendara ke New York

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Aku tidak pernah bilang seperti itu

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Ya Benar sekali Mereka tidak bisa berteman

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Kecuali mereka berdua sedang bersama dengan orang lain baru mereka bisa berteman Aku umumkan peraturan sebelumnya

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ketika ada dua orang sedang dalam sebuah hubungan

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Tekanan kemungkinan untuk berteman akan meningkat

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itu juga tidak akan berjalan dengan baik karena pacarmu sekarang tidak dapat melihat

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kenapa kau harus berteman dengan seseorang

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Seperti ada sesuatu yang hilang dalam hubungan tersebut

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Kemudian ketika kau bilang Tidak ada yang Hilang dari hubungan tesebut dengan Pacarmu

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maka pacarmu akan menuduhmu bahwa kau sangat atraktif dengan orang yang baru saja kau kenal

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mungkin kau khawatir dengan itu maksudku mari hadapi saja

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jadi kita kembali ke peraturan sebelum amandemen

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dimana pria dan wanita tidak dapat berteman yang menjadi penghalang kita

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Harry Apa

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Selamat Tinggal

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夕食でも一緒にどう友達として

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男と女は友達になれないって言う主義じゃなかった

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いつそんなこと言ったっけＮＹに来る途中の車の中

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違うよ絶対そんなこと言ってない

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そうその通り

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友達にはなれないな

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でもそのふたりに他に異性の交際相手がいなければ友達にはなれる

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これが前言への修正案

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もしそのふたりが交際しているのなら

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お互い他に異性の交際相手を焦って捜す必要がなくなる

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しかしこれもうまくいかないなその時交際している相手は

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君に友人の異性友達が必要なのか理解できないからだ

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つまり二人の関係には満たされないものがあってそれを他の人に求めるようなものだから

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それで君はこう言う違うよそういうことじゃない僕たちの関係には何も欠けているものはないんだ

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すると交際している相手は

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その友人の異性のことを秘かに好きなんじゃないかと君を責める

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それは多分事実なんだつまり誰のことを言っているのかな

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話を現実に戻そうそこでさっきのルールに戻る

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修正案以前の男と女は友達にはなれないってやつさそれで俺たちはどうなる

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ハリー何

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さようならオーケー

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Хочешь пообедать Просто друзья

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Ты не веришь что мужчины и женщины могут быть друзьями

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Когда я это говорил Когда мы ехали в Нью Йорк

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Нет нет нет нет я никогда такого не говорил

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Говорил Они не могут быть друзьями

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Если оба не увлечены кем то тогда могут Исправляю первое правило

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Если два человека находятся в отношениях

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давление возможного увлечения снимается

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Так то же не получается Человек не может видеть

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почему вы должны быть друзьями

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при отсутствии отношений

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Тогда когда ты говоришь нет ничего нету человеку с которым общаешься

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то это выдает тебя в том

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что тебе нравится человек с которым вы вероятно только друзья

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Я имею в виду пора признать это

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Вот мы и вернулись к первому правилу

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мужчины и женщины не могут быть друзьями Когда мы приедем

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Гарри Что

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До свидания

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Te quedas esta noche Sí

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Te gustaría que cenemos Como amigos

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Pensé que tú no creías que hombres y mujeres podían ser amigos

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Cuándo dije eso En el viaje a Nueva York

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Nunca dije eso

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Sí es cierto

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No pueden ser amigos

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A menos que ambos estén involucrados con otra gente Entonces sí pueden

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Esto es una enmienda a la regla anterior

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Si dos personas están en relaciones la presión de involucrarse se disipa

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Eso tampoco funciona porque entonces la persona con quien estás involucrado

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no puede entender por qué necesitas ser amigo

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de la persona de quien eres amigo

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Como si significara que falta algo en la relación

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Entonces cuando dices ''No falta nada en la relación''

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la persona con la que estás involucrado te acusa

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de estar secretamente atraído a la persona de quien sólo eres amigo

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lo cual probablemente sea cierto A quién engañamos

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Lo cual nos trae de regreso a la regla antes de la enmienda

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Hombres y mujeres no pueden ser amigos Dónde nos deja eso

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Harry Qué

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Adiós

Available in 8 languages

Duration

56 seconds

Views

522

Timestamp in Movie

00:21:22

Uploaded

Mar 12, 2026

Genres

comedy, drama, romance

Production

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Movie Summary

Harry and Sally have known each other for years, and are very good friends, but they fear sex would ruin the friendship.

Actors

Harry Burns

Sally Albright