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You Hurt My Feelings

A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Director

Nicole Holofcener

Year

Genre

Box Office

$4,830,788

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N/A

Awards

1 win & 6 nominations

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Carolyn

Jonathan

Don

Beth

Julia Louis-Dreyfus

Eliot

Jared

April

Spike Einbinder

Chris

Ivy

Marielle

Karolena Theresa

Billy

Trey Santiago-Hudson

Hal

Romy

Esther

Claudia Robinson

Sarah

Michaela Watkins

Zoe

Jim

Ali

Mark

Frankie

Sylvia

LaTanya Richardson Jackson

Georgia

Steve

Alice

Rebecca Henderson

Bea

Salesperson

Mellini Kantayya

Vince

Dr. Allen

Ed

Robber #1

Christian Jacobs

Robber #2

Eileen

Josh Pais

Fan

Second Fan

James Hightower

Pedestrian

Bookstore Clerk

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Jonathan... Hello?
Oh, my God... - You Hurt My Feelings

Jonathan... Hello? Oh, my God...

Carolyn, maybe if Jonathan
repeats back to you - You Hurt My Feelings

Carolyn, maybe if Jonathan repeats back to you

No, I don't need him to repeat
back to me what I just said. - You Hurt My Feelings

No, I don't need him to repeat back to me what I just s...

Did your mom point at you - You Hurt My Feelings

Did your mom point at you

So how about... yeah, - You Hurt My Feelings

So how about... yeah,

Okay, here's a more
honest feeling. Um... - You Hurt My Feelings

Okay, here's a more honest feeling. Um...

We've been coming here
a long time - You Hurt My Feelings

We've been coming here a long time

Jesus. I just... I hate you're
working here. It's dangerous. - You Hurt My Feelings

Jesus. I just... I hate you're working here. It's ...

Ah... okay, they're for
my students though-- - You Hurt My Feelings

Ah... okay, they're for my students though--

So you're a writer - You Hurt My Feelings

So you're a writer

I wanna write about this man
on the street who came up to me - You Hurt My Feelings

I wanna write about this man on the street who came up to me

So he asked me
to stand guard - You Hurt My Feelings

So he asked me to stand guard

He took off his pants - You Hurt My Feelings

He took off his pants

I am horrified - You Hurt My Feelings

But it's very compelling - You Hurt My Feelings

But it's very compelling

And one day,
a bee flew in her mouth - You Hurt My Feelings

And one day, a bee flew in her mouth

Uh... I literally thought, - You Hurt My Feelings

Uh... I literally thought,

Uh, in the hospital.
But it was pretty awful. - You Hurt My Feelings

Uh, in the hospital. But it was pretty awful.

Well, I think that that
has the potential - You Hurt My Feelings

Well, I think that that has the potential

What if you want to write
about somebody who's not dead - You Hurt My Feelings

What if you want to write about somebody who's not dead

Um, what kind of story
were you thinking about, Hal? - You Hurt My Feelings

Um, what kind of story were you thinking about, Hal?

And what about a prison
specifically interests you? - You Hurt My Feelings

And what about a prison specifically interests you?

Gosh, guys,
what a productive class. - You Hurt My Feelings

Gosh, guys, what a productive class.

Trust me, - You Hurt My Feelings

-Oh, wow!
-You like? - You Hurt My Feelings

-Oh, wow! -You like?

-I love them.
-Well, - You Hurt My Feelings

-I love them. -Well,

-Yeah. We are.
-Yeah. - You Hurt My Feelings

-Yeah. We are. -Yeah.

She's my much,
much older sister, - You Hurt My Feelings

She's my much, much older sister,

Don't call old
people adorable. - You Hurt My Feelings

Don't call old people adorable.

Black pants. Okay, so you look
like you're about a 27 or 28. - You Hurt My Feelings

Black pants. Okay, so you look like you're about a 27 o...

I imagine your siblings
feel differently, - You Hurt My Feelings

I imagine your siblings feel differently,

You know, they're
taking him to doctors - You Hurt My Feelings

You know, they're taking him to doctors

Jim, we haven't been
working together very long. - You Hurt My Feelings

Jim, we haven't been working together very long.

But, um, yeah, I'm hoping that
we... we can begin exploring - You Hurt My Feelings

But, um, yeah, I'm hoping that we... we can begin explo...

Okay that... Um, that's
the end of our session. - You Hurt My Feelings

Okay that... Um, that's the end of our session.

No, I'm, but... I got it. Okay. - You Hurt My Feelings

No, I'm, but... I got it. Okay.

I just think you could
work someplace better, - You Hurt My Feelings

I just think you could work someplace better,

I just think you could
find something - You Hurt My Feelings

I just think you could find something

-Oh, sweetie...
-She's just on me about my job - You Hurt My Feelings

-Oh, sweetie... -She's just on me about my job

Okay, we'll figure it out.
Uh, never mind. - You Hurt My Feelings

Okay, we'll figure it out. Uh, never mind.

- Look at these things.
- I mean... - You Hurt My Feelings

- Look at these things. - I mean...

-My hands are so clammy.
-You're gonna do great. - You Hurt My Feelings

-My hands are so clammy. -You're gonna do great.

He wants me to turn on
the water when I pee, - You Hurt My Feelings

He wants me to turn on the water when I pee,

You know what I bought him?
A beanie, - You Hurt My Feelings

You know what I bought him? A beanie,

Um, does all this sound at
all familiar to you, Frankie? - You Hurt My Feelings

Um, does all this sound at all familiar to you, Frankie?

Well, his behavior reminds me
of someone else in your life. - You Hurt My Feelings

Well, his behavior reminds me of someone else in your life.

God, whatever happened
to regular coffee shops - You Hurt My Feelings

God, whatever happened to regular coffee shops

Okay, so I'll start by saying
what you already know. - You Hurt My Feelings

Okay, so I'll start by saying what you already know.

I love your work,
and the book is good. - You Hurt My Feelings

I love your work, and the book is good.

I-- I just don't feel
it's as strong as your memoir. - You Hurt My Feelings

I-- I just don't feel it's as strong as your memoi...

There's a lot of competition,
a lot of stories to tell, - You Hurt My Feelings

There's a lot of competition, a lot of stories to tell,

No, you're competing
with writers of all ethnicities, - You Hurt My Feelings

No, you're competing with writers of all ethnicities,

That other agent was chasing
you a while ago? - You Hurt My Feelings

That other agent was chasing you a while ago?

-Oh, yeah. Vince something.
-Yeah. - You Hurt My Feelings

-Oh, yeah. Vince something. -Yeah.

Less tired and horrifying, - You Hurt My Feelings

Less tired and horrifying,

I look tired.
I'm... I'm aging. - You Hurt My Feelings

I look tired. I'm... I'm aging.

Well, I just get
a little bit right here. - You Hurt My Feelings

Well, I just get a little bit right here.

You know, I can still move
my eyebrows. Watch, watch. - You Hurt My Feelings

You know, I can still move my eyebrows. Watch, watch.

Oh, yeah, so expressive. - You Hurt My Feelings

Oh, yeah, so expressive.

I don't know, I was...
I was young and hot. - You Hurt My Feelings

I don't know, I was... I was young and hot.

First of all,
that's not her job. - You Hurt My Feelings

First of all, that's not her job.

And second of all,
it did okay, you know. - You Hurt My Feelings

And second of all, it did okay, you know.

Well, maybe if Dad hadn't
just been verbally abusive, - You Hurt My Feelings

Well, maybe if Dad hadn't just been verbally abusive,

Oh, hey, Mom, while we're here, - You Hurt My Feelings

Oh, hey, Mom, while we're here,

You shouldn't volunteer, - You Hurt My Feelings

You shouldn't volunteer,

Yeah, she is, because they got
everything going for them, - You Hurt My Feelings

Yeah, she is, because they got everything going for them,

Maybe once. But it's good,
not for the homeless. - You Hurt My Feelings

Maybe once. But it's good, not for the homeless.

Well, they appreciate
nice stuff, you know. - You Hurt My Feelings

Well, they appreciate nice stuff, you know.

Oh, please. I have
plenty, I have too much. - You Hurt My Feelings

Oh, please. I have plenty, I have too much.

I'm not going
to put potato salad... - You Hurt My Feelings

I'm not going to put potato salad...

And you know, I think it's
going to be a real challenge - You Hurt My Feelings

And you know, I think it's going to be a real challenge

Oh, before I forget, Sarah is
throwing me a birthday dinner. - You Hurt My Feelings

Oh, before I forget, Sarah is throwing me a birthday dinner.

That's too funny. Mark
cares that much about socks? - You Hurt My Feelings

That's too funny. Mark cares that much about socks?

About how the cheap ones - You Hurt My Feelings

About how the cheap ones

It's this movie I did about 10 years ago - You Hurt My Feelings

It's this movie I did about 10 years ago

It's kind of a...
kind of a mystery. - You Hurt My Feelings

It's kind of a... kind of a mystery.

I can't. I could have,
maybe should have, - You Hurt My Feelings

I can't. I could have, maybe should have,

Okay, wait, right over there-- - You Hurt My Feelings

Okay, wait, right over there--

Oh, God. Oh! - You Hurt My Feelings

He loves you more than life itself - You Hurt My Feelings

He loves you more than life itself

Do you understand
I've been working on this book - You Hurt My Feelings

Do you understand I've been working on this book

I've given him, like,
a million drafts to read, - You Hurt My Feelings

I've given him, like, a million drafts to read,

Because he just doesn't like,
you know, - You Hurt My Feelings

Because he just doesn't like, you know,

I am never gonna be able to look him in the face ever again - You Hurt My Feelings

I am never gonna be able to look him in the face ever again

And all the articles
and all the essays, - You Hurt My Feelings

And all the articles and all the essays,

-No, there's just no way.
-He's a liar. - You Hurt My Feelings

-No, there's just no way. -He's a liar.

Beth, he loves you, even if
he doesn't like your book. - You Hurt My Feelings

Beth, he loves you, even if he doesn't like your book.

-Of all people.
-Well, let me read it. - You Hurt My Feelings

-Of all people. -Well, let me read it.

Like, Mark
isn't always great, okay? - You Hurt My Feelings

Like, Mark isn't always great, okay?

I'm just saying he's not
always good, you know, - You Hurt My Feelings

I'm just saying he's not always good, you know,

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A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

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Director: Nicole Holofcener

Writer: Nicole Holofcener

Production: N/A

Genre: comedy, drama

Year: 2023

MetaScore: 82/100

ImdbRating: 6.6

BoxOffice: $4,830,788

Released: 26 Jan 2024

Awards: 1 win & 6 nominations

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